I am a man in my later 50s, and have been happily married to my best friend for close to 30 years. I am the sole provider for my family and my wife Home schools. My … I am the sole provider until my wife starts working and make decent money. I tried to make it work. ... this could be a reason to end the relationship. I asked her to help paying for kid’s college fund, and her car maintenance and gas and (kind of expected) she got very upset and didn’t talk to me. My husband struggled with this as well when the only way I knew to describe my compulsion was ‘it’s like an addiction”. Unfortunately, my wife went through early menopause over 20 years ago. So t o summarize, why It’s so hard to end … But my wife could.not be honest with me. Dear Sizing Up, Women are a very large group. My wife of 8 years has recently had an affair,in the same circumstances.We were going through a rough patch in our marraige and she had started a new job and this fat arsehole was buttering her up.The sad thing is myself & her mates all told her what was happening but she was so convinced she could handle it herself.But as it turns out she couldnt.I am no-where … I started having an "innocent" conversation with an acquaintance of mine. I am married myself but very unhappy with my husband. Dear Amy: My wife and I have been together for 12 years. Not an excuse, just a piece of the puzzle in understanding all the many components to why so many ending an affair is so difficult. She had the affairs and she was the one that wanted to end it. By the end, I was lying on my back while he massaged my legs and thighs, which is perfectly normal, by the way. I am in the same situation as you are I am having an affair with a co worker, I have 3 beautiful children and a husband we have been married for 9 years and I have with with my affair for about 8 months…. Same story with my wife and marriage. I’m sure some women do notice a difference between 5.8 inches and 5.2 or 6.4. So I ask her to move and she did. She recently told me that I have been this way through almost all of our life together. I felt compelled to share with him the unfulfilled state of my marriage. Jefferson … I am an verbally abusive husband. The play was developed with Moisés Kaufman and his Tectonic Theater Project, and Kaufman also acted as director. She moved out in Jan 17. When I got divorced from my wife the hardest part was maintaining contact in order to raise our son. He is quite simply the love of my life. It never crossed my mind to be cautious about my relationships with other men because I never realized I could be so vulnerable. 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